If the user embeds the flash client on their own page, if someone then
clicks something to visit a msoy page, we will be unable to load that
page in that same tab/window. Instead, we'll be forced by flash security
restrictions to open in a blank window.
Allow for either method, falling back to a blank window if the other
method fails.
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